When someone want to go away they find reasons pointing us which will hurt in a way our  self respect damage badly so that they can get rid of us in cool way without reveling their actual intentions.when we struggle one reason to move one they will create thousands of reasons to prove us wrong.And as fools we quit and automatically set an image in our mind that all fault is ours..its funny but true.Mind tactics whistles!!Just this is how givers end up as losers!!