In todays relationships  you may not find equally committed partners mostly..there will be one person who probably gives more ( care,  love, commitment, adjustments)when other person takes more..after some time it became a habit that, givers end up doing selflessly and ends up in depression  and takers enjoys you as granted..The Most scary thing is if ever a constant giver hold back, or feel low after the one side efforts they shower, the taker may not  take an effort to make everything alright at least a 20% of giver's effort .. action always proves things words can never.. Be aware where you stand in a relationship  is really important, after all if a relation ship is making you caged or instead  of motivation.. it gives you more depression its time to think.." is it worth? "! All have right to live,be happy. love should not make you a slave, it should free you.. if you cant see good in yourself being in a relationship that means the relationship itself is rotten..its then time either both work to improve it or end it!! Because its life you are playing with!!yours or theirs life has only one price!!god will not see genders!! i am not telling this happens with all relationships.. but there is an expiry date fore every  thing in life some times.. nobody wants but it awaits in the corner always!!